One thing about competitive swimming is it doesn’t hurt too bad. No shin splints, no knee injuries, no twisted ankles, torn muscles or tendons. Yes, after a good hard race where you swim your heart out, and every ounce of strength is spent, one does drag him/herself out of the pool and collapse. But that’s exhaustion, not pain. In hot, really hot climates, it is refreshing. This is the story of how all 95 lbs. of me…back in the day… went from recreational swimming to competitive swimming.
My mother witnessed two drownings as a child. Armed with the knowledge it could save our lives, she was determined that the four of us living in Southern climates would not just learn how to swim, but be proficient. At one point my dad belonged to a yacht club. He joined it with the sailboat he built with his friend from across the street. We always wore life vests but still, safety dictated that if we were going to go out on the boat, we needed to know how to swim. So my mother sat beside the community pool summer after summer as all of us took lessons moving from the ranks of tadpoles to ultimately Sr. Lifesaving.
We moved from that small town to Florida where kids not only swam, and went boating, they surfed the waves at the beach. When it was time to choose an extracurricular activity in high school, I chose swim team. I learned quickly that although I knew how to swim recreationally, I would have to swim many hours of practice and go through some stroke analysis to get to the competitive finish line with a respectable place. Swim practice started in February in an outdoor pool in FL. Whatever people may think, it is cold in FL in February and colder yet in the water, but I was committed and saw it through. I practiced every day, Monday through Sunday. Practices were before school and after school, Saturday mornings and early evenings, and Sunday afternoons. I believed in my coaches and I believed in the team because traditionally they took away State honors each year. I dreamed of placing in local meets and perhaps qualifying for State. I was surrounded by the best. A. swam the 50 free, 100 free, 100 butterfly and 200 IM faster than any girl on our team. B. was not far behind A. and specialized in backstroke and fly. In order to earn team points at meets for longer distances, C. and D. swam the 200 free and 400 free faster than anyone pacing themselves carefully in order to give it their all the last 3 laps. D. also was #1 in breast stroke. These four girls raced the 200 Medley and 400 free relays to assure a team win with a stacked roster. I didn’t make it to State my first year.
After everyone…but me…went to State that year we celebrated with a Swim banquet. We enjoyed being together, our coaches’ speeches and the presentations. At the bottom of the program was the presentation of most valuable boy and girl swimmer. Of course A. got that trophy and I believe CB got it for the boys. Then there was a third trophy. Dr. Constans was our principal and our coach. He spoke about the importance of academics, and the importance of being athletic and managing a sport. I don’t really remember it today but I do remember he called out my name. I remember A. squealed in excitement and seemed as excited for me as she was about her own trophy. I remember a picture of the three of us Most Valuable Girl, MV Boy and me, Highest Academic Achievement. With that I was in for another year. A. was a celebrity of sorts in our community being a State ranked swimmer. In the Orlando Evening Star (I still have the newspaper clipping) in an interview she said
I swim all year around. That’s the way you have to do to be good. Lots of people just swim for a couple of months during school and give it up the rest of the year. They never get anywhere that way.”
So I followed her advice and I joined a local swim club for the summer outside of school. The next year I defined myself as a distance swimmer and added 200 IM, 200 freestyle and the 400 to my events. We lifted weights in the fall and entered the pool in February. I learned it was cold…frigid…when I first hit the water, but then my body actually warmed up with our first 72 laps. As we went to sprints, I actually got hot and yes, I think we all sweated, even if we were in the water. We swam one mile before school and 3 to 5 miles after school depending on how close to a meet we were. It was serious swimming and I could feel myself getting better riding higher on the water, placing my arms as deep and as far as I could to scoop the water, and then I noticed the ripple in my thighs and arms. I began to place at meets in every event I was entered. Dr. Constans even put me on the final relay.
One particular final relay was important. The meet had been close and the outcome of the relay would sway the results for first or second place for the team. E., F., B. and I made up the relay team. I’m pretty sure B. was assigned the final leg, and I was given the second or third leg. The race was
close and I could see Dr. C’s excitement. He really believed we could win this. I got onto the block ready to dive in at the instant E. touched the wall. While she swam her return lap he said gripping the block “We can do this Georgette. You can do this.” I was not convinced. Then he said something that has always stayed with me. He looked me in the eye and said “It’s almost impossible to hurt a healthy trained body.” I knew I was healthy, and he had just told me I was trained…the only thing left was for me to pull it off. I swam my best split that race. The four of us won the relay and the team won the meet. That year, my junior year, I made it to State in a couple of events. By Senior year, I had qualified in 5 events: 100 back, 100 breast, 200 IM, 200 free and 400 free.
These ladies were my heroes and mentors in high school. They pursued excellence through daily and annual discipline. I am forever grateful to have swum in their wake.
A. went on to do graduate work in kinesiology. B. joined the Marines and has retired in Joplin, Missouri. Her own daughters became outstanding swimmers. D. is an interior decorator in a neighboring state. All four of us reunited on FB in the past two years.
I am SO impressed! But how tragic that your mother witnessed two drownings. My mother was deathly afraid of the water, and therefore, wanted us to have nothing to do with it. Thus – I don’t know how to swim.
Enjoyed your post today!
My mother is an amazing woman! I have to still write about more aspects of her influence on us and others. She led us (and others) to places she herself didn’t know but always had the confidence we could conquer. Thank you for reading and commenting. Your daily discipline reminds me of those years and I appreciate the inspiration.
I thoroughly enjoyed this blog, Georgette, & trying to figure out ‘who’ was ‘who’! Some of my favorite people were on this swim team & made all of us at CBHS so very proud. It’s an honor to know you & them. Thanks for sharing this story.
Awww…you came by on a perfect day to read about something very familiar. Is God good or what? We’ll have lunch when I get back and I’ll fill you in on who is who. Thank you so much for reading and commenting!!! You have made my day.
Georgette, I am going to share this with my sister – an avid swimmer in high school. Two of her kids were also swimmers in high school. (Excellent swimmers.) When my parents moved from FL to GA, they deliberately found a house near a school with a pool, so my sister could continue swimming.
I hope my boys will catch the swimming bug. Based on their love for water, I’m hopeful. I loved this post. Thank you for sharing.
“I am forever grateful to have swum in their wake.” Nicely done. ~ Lenore
I’m so glad you can identify with this. Swimming is a great individual (competing against one’s previous times) and team (one’s performance measurably contributes to the team outcome) sport. When my grandson lived in Houston, I found the best swim academy I could find with my daughter’s blessing to take him there, (…that’s another story…hmmmm subject of another post….) to first teach him to swim. I do hope he catches “the bug.” He’ll be 8 this month.
Beautiful recollections! I played a lot of soccer growing up and was usually one of the more average or lesser players on very good teams. I, too, had fantastic coaches who always made me feel like an important member of the team even if not the MVP. Valuable life lessons 🙂
Hi Jean! Thank you for reading and commenting. Yes, these lessons certainly are as important as academics.
I love the encouragement your coach gave you just before your race. That means everything in this age of steroids, doesn’t it?
Awww….thank you for reading and commenting. Back in the day it was sheer training and I do remember coming home from practice and devouring peanut butter, banana and honey sandwiches before dinner, no less.
I don’t think I have a competitive bone in my body. I admire your ability, and the support you had from family, coach, and team. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for reading and commenting. hmmm…I have to think about that more… I’m not sure I have a competitive bone left now. I just am who I am and make fun choices now. I do like to produce my best and I still have the discipline…but I’m not trying to win, just make a difference in my choices.
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Of course this happens away from my chair that swivels and rocks. I hope I can do this justice on a laptop using hotel wi-fi that kicks me offline on occasion. There is no place like home. : )
I sent you a personal note, should of put it here, not sure what I said, at my age, one forgets a few minute’s ago… Of course I enjoyed this one, I had the honor to be a team mate of yours in high school….it gave me the opportunity to do what I did best in those days, all sports, but mainly swimming, but it was friends like you that gave me the wisdom to read more, learn more, as they say, if you pay attention, you can learn something everyday..well, some days I did, some I didn’t, but the character you are helped me to be more rounded, for my dear, I don’t think I would try to take a class I knew nothing about amoung all you intellerctuals……but, you loved me anyway~~~~~~~~
You were among the best in the state of Florida and I’ll say it again. I was honored to swim in your wake. You were always ahead of me in the lap lane. Love you, dear! Thank you for reading all this time and commenting today. I’m so proud of all you’re giving back to Joplin.
My brother drowned at the age of 30 near St. Agustine in Florida-the saddest day of my life. So, when my first daughter was born 3 years later,I was determined that she would be a good swimmer. Like you, she decided to join a swim team- but, at the age of 7. For the next 7 years, we spent nearly every spring and summer weekend at pools and meets. Now, she is a mom and my granddaughter loves the water and had her first swim lessons at 9 months!!! Swimming is so important and so enjoyable!! Thanks for a great post!!!
I’m so sorry for the tragedy in your life. Yet you are one of the most positive people I know. When you start your blog you must write about this, too.